So, you like what you’ve read so far and would like to meet. Introducing yourself in email first is the preferred way to initiate contact!
I can receive upwards of 20 emails (sometimes double) a day, it is just myself who deals with enquiries and I have other commitments, so you can imagine how time consuming this can be! Therefore when you contact me please let me know the following information:
- Possible dates.
- Meeting length and time of day (or mention if you are flexible).
- Your preferred method/time to contact.
- Also, the most important part! A little about who you are, your interests, your hopes and wishes for our meeting.
- Any previous ladies you have met that are happy to provide a reference (not always necessary but definitely helps when I am deciding to meet a new client).
I don’t expect an essay, but just letting me get a sense of you are is very helpful. I do like to know who I am meeting and so if you are uncomfortable with this I am probably not the lady for you. Please don’t leave enquiries on voicemail as I rarely check them. I aim to reply same day, though if 48 hours passes and I haven’t responded and my out of office isn’t on, a follow up email can be great to make sure I haven’t missed you. I don’t respond to crude messages or enquiries just asking if I am available on a certain date with no other information.
Before meeting I like to have a brief phonecall, where we can ask any questions and get a feel for each other beforehand. Please don’t be shy, this is only because I want our meeting to go well. I want to make sure that I am able to meet your requirements and would never arrange an appointment if I felt I wasn’t going to be able to leave you completely satisfied. I find this straightforward approach much better than a cloying, deceptive attempt to try and woo you by saying whatever I feel you want to hear in order to secure a booking. I figure this can only lead to disappointment and an awkward encounter for the both of us.
I have certain screening protocols in place for bookings. My safety is extremely important to me so please do not ask me to compromise my procedures, they are in place for a reason, so I can feel safe, secure and comfortable meeting you. A deposit is required at my discretion, generally this will be the case if other commitments severely limit the time I am available for meetings.
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